When my wife and I used to be musicians we and the other players were arrogant 20 somethings who nailed almost every song we did and always had the dance floor packed. And as a result we felt free to do all kinds of goofy stuff–a 50s show, a Country Western show, costumes (see pic), funny hats, glasses, stage gymnastics etc. It was fun for us and fun for our Sheraton/Country Club circuit audiences.

Then the band changed personnel for about 2 months and the new guys weren’t very good. We …